Top 5 Lessons I Learned This Week To Prevent Future Heartbreaks a.k.a Top 5 Dating Rules That Must Be Observed a.k.a. Top 5 Mistakes that Must Not Be Repeated to Prevent Permanent Heart Damage and Irreversible Psychological Paralysis:
1. Always keep an open mind - never start with a relationship in mind. You will likely to scare more people off than attract any. And quite frankly, you don't need a relationship right now. And you definitely are not in a hurry to make more friends because you're not too short on that. Besides, making friends is too easy but not the real purpose of your search, is it? Of course if you do, it's a big bonus.
2. When you have the chance to ask someone out, do it. Do not hesitate. Don't wait for them to become too comfortable with your friendship, cuz then they'll use that to say no and you are only making life harder for yourself.
3. Even if they say no, persistence is more important that you think. Do not overdo it so you become a pest. Instead continue your current course of action. Turn on your charm, nudge her bit by bit, especially when you know you have her full attention. Seriously, when a girl spends half her time talking to you, she IS into you and can be swayed.
4. It is OK to fuck someone first before you decide what you want to do next, because you will either make them fall in love with you or not. Simple as that. If things work out, great. If not, you can still be friends if she's open about it. Or screw it, you part company. Whichever way, you stand to gain more than you have to lose.
5. Never repeat the above 4 rules to whoever you are courting. To them, you should just be a friendly person who can turn into a potential date.
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